Sunday, December 28, 2008

The Great Rescue…

As I have reflected on Christmas this season I have reflected from a bit of a different angle. The Christmas we celebrate is the beginning of the greatest operative in the history of mankind. As God looked upon His creation in bondage He knew there would have to be a great rescue mission. Humanity had been captured by sin and was living merely an existence in a concentration camp of false hopes and twisted desires. The taskmasters of darkness had deceived humanity into believing this is all there is to life. “Get while you can and don’t worry about others.” The lies abounded…and the remnant of those lies live on even today.

The birth of Jesus was the insertion of God, veiled in humanity, behind the enemy lines. His purpose was single fold, to seek and save that what was lost! To free those in bondage…the hostages to sin and darkness.

From the moment the rumors began to leak that an operative had been inserted, the enemy began an all out search and destroy mission. Many innocent children were killed in the wake of darkness trying to thwart God’s mission. In spite of all of the efforts of darkness, many lives were changed. Numbers were healed and some were even raised from the dead! As Jesus worked His mission all of history was changed. Those who were freed were given a new life…and a call to carry on the mission.

For those who accept this rescue…we have been given a new life of freedom! Freedom from the bondage of sin, freedom from the bondage of legalism, freedom from the Spirit of this Age, freedom from fear. Freedom to live life to the fullest.

John 10:10 says: A thief is only there to steal and kill and destroy. I came so they can have real and eternal life, more and better life than they ever dreamed of.

Romans 5:8 adds: But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners (captives), Christ died for us.

This is the Great Rescue!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

God of this City

The God of Hope is also the God of this City.

Enjoy this video from Chris Tomlin:

Friday, December 26, 2008

Expectations…the fruit

Just one more thing on expectations that I left out yesterday.

When trying to determine the root of the expectations…how do we determine what is at the core of our expectations? Are they righteous or unrighteous…are they good or bad…are they selfish or unselfish? A simple question, that a wise man shared with me a few months back, to help determine the motive: “what is the fruit of this?”. Simply stepping back and honestly asking, what is the fruit of this expectation, will help us clarify where this expectation is coming from…is it of God or of fallen man?

What is the natural fruit of my expectations?

What is the natural fruit of your expectations?

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Expectations…

Okay, if we are honest, isn’t Christmas all about expectations?

The list of expectations is endless. We have expectations of ourselves as well as others. There are expectations of what the tree should look like, how tall it should be, what type of ornaments and lights should be on it…and what goes at the top. There are expectations of the music which should be played…and how often it should be played. There are expectations of family, loved ones and friends. We have expectations of our church, the church and those in the church. And of course we have expectations of God.

Is it wrong to have expectations? No, not necessarily. When we have expectations, we have hope and isn’t Christmas all about hope. The truth is our expectation…our hope, should be in Christ. When our expectations are in others, we will be let down. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow…but one day others will let us down. When our expectations are in ourselves and our own abilities…once again there will come a point when we will let ourselves down. We won’t meet up to our own standard. It’s these unmet expectations which are used to steal our joy and kill our spirit. We have a sin nature and we live in a fallen world…but the story doesn’t end here.

Christmas is all about God sending Jesus to set us free from unmet expectations. (I will share my thoughts about the Great Rescue later) I am not saying that God is going to meet all of our expectations any more that I am saying others are going to meet all of our expectations. At the core, many if not most of our expectations are selfish. God sent Jesus to exceed our expectations by giving us a new life, one that is abundant and free!

Accept that gift and expect a life that is abundant and free. Believe, receive and live free! Expect God to change your life…my life. Lay our expectations down before Him and be forever changed.

Merry Christmas!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Just Scripture Today…

Prayer to Be Reckoned With (MSG)

13-15Are you hurting? Pray. Do you feel great? Sing. Are you sick? Call the church leaders together to pray and anoint you with oil in the name of the Master. Believing-prayer will heal you, and Jesus will put you on your feet. And if you've sinned, you'll be forgiven—healed inside and out.

16-18Make this your common practice: Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you can live together whole and healed. The prayer of a person living right with God is something powerful to be reckoned with. Elijah, for instance, human just like us, prayed hard that it wouldn't rain, and it didn't—not a drop for three and a half years. Then he prayed that it would rain, and it did. The showers came and everything started growing again.

19-20My dear friends, if you know people who have wandered off from God's truth, don't write them off. Go after them. Get them back and you will have rescued precious lives from destruction and prevented an epidemic of wandering away from God.

The Prayer of Faith (NIV)

13Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. 14Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. 15And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. 16Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

17Elijah was a man just like us. He prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the land for three and a half years. 18Again he prayed, and the heavens gave rain, and the earth produced its crops. 19My brothers, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring him back, 20remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of his way will save him from death and cover over a multitude of sins.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Please pray for a miracle…

Meet Erick, a young boy in need of a miracle. Erick lives in Guatemala City and is part of the ministry of Hope for Guatemala.

Erick was born with a liver disease which has plagued him most of his life. The doctors have said that he should not have lived as long as he has…yet he is still alive today. Erick’s parents have been told by the doctors that he will not survive without a liver transplant, yet they have also been told that he is not eligible for one, due to his home conditions. Currently he needs a clean environment where the risk of infection is minimized and he can consistently receive the needed medications.  Erick’s home consists of 12 children in the home plus his parents.

Erick’s dream is to be healed and one day become a chef.

There are many hurdles to Erick getting the care he so desperately needs, but none are too big for God to overcome.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Things left unsaid....

Do you ever find you have left things unsaid…that needed to be said? Suddenly it’s too late to go back and say what you really wanted to say. The opportunity is gone. The person is gone. The audience is gone. Suddenly its an awkward situation trying to go back and say what we really wanted to say…our should have said. There are clearly times when something deep within us (Holy Spirit many times) is prompting us to say something. Maybe its words of affirmation, encouragement or love. Other times its standing up for what is right…in the face of what is wrong.

As we transition from this time of Thanksgiving into Christmas we will be faced with numerous times to just share from our heart. Many times with family or friends…other times with complete strangers. Will I be ready…will you be ready?

Here are the lyrics from one of my favorite songs by Kutless.

"It's Like Me" by Kutless from the project Sea of Faces
My conversation is leading nowhere
And we talk of God but still I don't share
So many times that I just never saw the chance
It's like me to never see
When it came, when it went
Now it's gone away
It's so like me to never see
When it came, when it went
Now it's gone away
The phone rings with news that he's gone
Just the time I shared my heart was prepared and another soul was won
So much truth to tell, I am so glad I saw the chance
It's like me to never see
When it came, when it went
Now it's gone away
It's so like me to never see
When it came, when it went
Now it's gone away
Sometimes I still never see when perfect opportunities come my way
Would my care increase if I truly believed that a life could be saved
It's like me to never see
When it came, when it went
Now it's gone away
It's so like me to never see
When it came, when it went
Now it's gone away

Monday, November 24, 2008

Thanksgiving...

So just what is Thanksgiving to you? Is it just another day? Is it an excuse for a day off? Is it just food and football?

Ninety-two times we find the words Give Thanks in the Bible. Over and over we find that giving thanks is also associated with changing perspective or attitude. How true it is, when we just take time to give thanks we cant help but change our attitude. Self begins to melt away as we focus on God and His many blessings. Our perspective changes and life takes on a whole new look. As we take time to celebrate Thanksgiving, take time to give thanks.

Yesterday in our children's ministry at church, the lesson looked at three of the feasts which God set up for the Israelites to observe. The purpose of each one of these special times is to stop and take time to remember what God has done; deliverance, provision, protection. What does our list look like...I dare say we find the same things today. If we don't, it's not because God isn't working...most likely its because we aren't looking. I challenge each of us to take five minuets each day this week to just list the things we are thankful for...and then take time to thank God for each of them.

Happy Thanksgiving Week...

Friday, November 14, 2008

Exhaustion...

Exhaustion can fog and cloud life...

I have not forgotten about this blog, but I need to stop, study and listen. This week has been a stack of very long days.

Tonight it's time to get some rest before pushing through the next five days...I'm half way home. God continues to bless and for that I am thankful.

Monday, November 3, 2008

Fight, Flight...or Freeze

Our human nature is wired with natural reactions to what seem to be overwhelming circumstances. We have been told that our bodies have a "fight or flight" circuit within us to protect us. I would add that we have a third reaction as well...freeze. When we encounter an attack, realize we have been ambushed or become overwhelmed with fear we then have a choice. We fight, we run or we freeze.

Society has told us that to turn and fight is the brave thing, to run is cowardly. I would propose that all three reactions have their place and can be used for victory.

At times we need to turn and face the enemy and fight with skill and power. In the Chronicles of Narnia, when Peter was given his sword and shield, he was told the day was approaching when he would need these tools...and that they were tools not toys. We too, as believers, are given a Shield of Faith and a Sword of the Spirit. Jesus continually showed us how to wield both of these as He would turn to Satan and strike him down with The Sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God. (No, we cannot neglect the other pieces of Armor which we have been given which are outlined in Ephesians 6, but we can discuss those at another time.) As we turn and face the attacks of our enemy we will find that we begin to discover who we are in Christ.

To run or to freeze seem weak and dangerous in the heat of battle, when the attacks surprise us and catch us off guard. If we are weak, unprepared or untrained for battle these may be wise choices. For the skilled warrior or the conscience warrior, I propose that there may still be a time to run or to freeze. If we are running to a stronger position for battle...then that is wise. If we are running to rescue another who is wounded...that is noble. If we are running to lead the enemy to a greater battle which has been prepared...then that is well planned. My point is if we are running to hide by ourselves and avoid the battle...we will surely die or will others who we are charged with to protect.

To freeze is much like running...except you are an even easier target for the enemy. The Word tells us that our enemy is like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. Sure, he will pick off the weak and feeble, but if he can freeze a leader, one of the strong ones, what an enjoyable meal that would be. The lion will freeze his prey with a mighty roar to strike fear in his prey...to freeze them in their tracks. When fear overcomes and locks us up we are an easy target. I propose though that there is a time when we need to freeze. When we are suddenly overwhelmed by the circumstances or just found ourselves in the midst of an ambush we may need to freeze and asses the situation. If we react with the circumstances or with the flow of the ambush we may find we have been led into the slaughter. We need to freeze in the safest position possible, fully and accurately asses the situation, gain our footing and then act in power and confidence.

"The Thief has come to steal, kill and destroy...but I have come that they might have life and have it abundantly"

"we have not been given a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind"

"He said to me:"It is done. I am the Alpha and Omega, the Beginning and the End. To him who is thirsty I will give to drink without cost from the spring of the water of life. He who overcomes will inherit all this, and I will be be his God and he will be My son. But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile...and all liars-their place will be in the fiery lake"

We are not called to a life of cowardly fear. To my surprise last night I realized that God hates that and names it with others who will be cast into the lake of fire. "The Lord is a Warrior, the Lord is His name." Exodus 15:3

Let me leave this last thought from the Matrix. In the subway as Neo realizes the Agent has found him a fight ensues. Neo is protecting his friends so that they can get out of the Matrix and back to safety. The porthole out is lost and Neo is getting absolutely beat up by the Agent. There is a break and Neo makes a run for the stairs out of the subway. There is light at the top of the stairs, he could get out, but realizes that there will only be another Agent waiting and he will still have to fight the battle. Neo freezes at the base of the stairs and then turns to face the Agent. He faces the battle with a resolve and strength like never before. Those outside the Matrix are watching asking what he is doing because he most likely will get killed. Morpheus calmly says with a grin, "he is beginning to understand who he is." Neo then fights the Agent with a power that he has never experience before and kills the agent. It is a great scene packed with analogy after analogy from the Bible.

When we face the evil and darkness of this world in our own strength, we will get our butt kicked and may very well die. When we fight in the power of His might with the "tools" He has given us, the victory is ours...for the Glory of God!

Sunday, October 26, 2008

The Quiet Stillness

When we just stop...stop long enough to take our focus off of ourselves or the circumstances around us, we will be changed. The huge mountains of anxiety, frustration, anger, fear and a ton of other emotions will begin to fade. When we simply and honestly come to God in a place of quiet our perspective begins to change. As The Message says in Matthew 6:6, we begin to sense His grace. All of these emotions have their place, but their place is not to control us. They are to stir us to action. They are to stir us to come to God with authenticity. God wants us to talk, yell, scream, sing or sob...what He wants is our heart. Coming before Him and laying out our heart can me a difficult thing to do...but think about this, it is safer with Him than with any other human on earth! God cares for us like a father, not like a father of abandonment and abuse...but a father who passionately cares for us.

Dumping our load on God does help us feel some better...when we believe He truly cares. When we don't fully believe and dump our load anyway, we are taking a step of faith...and it's a start. But after we dump our load...don't stop and walk away...wait.

After pour our heart out...we need to be silent. Silent to hear what God is saying in our heart. Audible no, real yes. Something deep within will begin to whisper direction, clarity, wisdom, love and grace. Its this quiet time that most of us forget but its the time that God can minister to us. I mean really, isn't that what we want most, God to minister to us? As the focus shifts from us to God, we begin to experience His peace.

This is a portion of what I experienced in the mountains of Colorado...

Matthew 6:5-7 (The Message)

Pray with Simplicity

5"And when you come before God, don't turn that into a theatrical production either. All these people making a regular show out of their prayers, hoping for stardom! Do you think God sits in a box seat?

6"Here's what I want you to do: Find a quiet, secluded place so you won't be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift from you to God, and you will begin to sense His grace.

7-13"The world is full of so-called prayer warriors who are prayer-ignorant. They're full of formulas and programs and advice, peddling techniques for getting what you want from God. Don't fall for that nonsense. This is your Father you are dealing with, and He knows better than you what you need. With a God like this loving you, you can pray very simply. Like this:
Our Father in heaven,
Reveal who You are.
Set the world right;
Do what's best— as above, so below.
Keep us alive with three square meals.
Keep us forgiven with You and forgiving others.
Keep us safe from ourselves and the Devil.
You're in charge!
You can do anything You want!
You're ablaze in beauty!
Yes. Yes. Yes.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

"The Reason for the Warrior"

Once again, this just fits...

Today I am going to post from today's devotional that came from Ransomed Heart Ministries. This series of devotionals are all excerpts from books written by John Eldredge.

The Reason For The Warrior
10/23/2008


Our God is a Warrior because there are certain things in life worth fighting for, must be fought for. He makes man a Warrior in his own image, because he intends for man to join him in that battle.


One day the young man Moses, prince of Egypt, went out to see for himself the oppression of his kinsmen. When he witnessed firsthand an Egyptian taskmaster beating a Hebrew slave, he couldn’t bear it, and killed the man. A rash act, for which he becomes a fugitive, but you see something of the Warrior emerging in him. Years later, God sends him back to set all his people free, and, I might add, it is one intense fight to win that freedom. David also fights, battle after battle, to win the freedom of his people and unite the tribes of Israel. Something in the man compelled him, that same something that wouldn’t allow Lincoln to simply sit by and watch the Union tear itself apart, wouldn’t permit Churchill—despite the views of many of his own countrymen—to sit by and let the Nazis take over Europe unopposed. For he knew that in the end they would have England, too.


There are certain things worth fighting for. A marriage, for example, or the institution of marriage as a whole. Children, whether they are yours or not. Friendships will have to be fought for, as you’ve discovered by now, and churches, too, which seem bent on destroying themselves if they are not first destroyed by the enemy who hates them. Many people feel that earth itself is worth fighting for. Doctors fight for the lives of their patients, and teachers for the hearts and futures of their students. Take anything good, true, or beautiful upon this earth and ask yourself, “Can this be protected without a fight?”


(The Way of The Wild Heart , 140,.141)

Monday, October 20, 2008

A Heavy Spirit...

Yesterday was an interesting day. Once again we had the opportunity to serve at Stonecreek...which comes with all of the added benefits that hanging with friends brings. But there was just something not quite right. Most of the day I talked with people who were battling everything from just being tired, headaches, not feeling well to those who lost their job without notice last week. Even at lunch with great friends...not everyone seemed themselves. Something was amiss. Even my girls battled unusual headaches and aches that didn't make sense. I couldn't quite put my finger on it but it was clearly bigger than we could see.

Want to know what our study series is a church...SPIRITUAL WARFARE!

A few weeks ago we were ready for the attacks and could see them coming head on. They were large and easy to spot from a distance...now they are more subtle and relentless! They have moved from circumstances to direct afflictions on the families, physical bodies and financial well being of believers who make a difference.

Last night I was searching for just what the spirit was that I was sensing throughout the day...then I asked. A spirit of heaviness. As Cindy and I turned and prayed against it, peace began to return. Today was an incredibly beautiful day and much easier than yesterday. Believe what you want, but I am convinced that Spiritual Warfare is much more real that most of us give credit. When we set out to expose the spirit of darkness with the Truth of God...hold on!

The following is an excerpt from a web site I found which put it well...

Satan is also called the Adversary. He opposes us in our walk with God. He uses many tricks and devices. One of his tactics is to send a "spirit of heaviness" upon us. When we recognize this we are able to over come him easily.

Ephesians 6:11 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles (methods - cunning, crafts) of the devil.

The Spirit of Heaviness

Isaiah 61:3 To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified.

SPIRIT is "ruwach" This is the same word used for all spiritual life and beings including God. It is used also of breath and air. It does not mean "a feeling" or attitude.

  • This is not mans own spirit, which is called "the spirit of man"
  • This is not God's spirit, nor can it be from God
  • It is a demonic spirit.

HEAVINESS means " somewhat dark 5, darkish 1, wax dim 1, smoking 1, heaviness 1; 9 dim, dull, colorless, be dark, faint :". It is a word used in the bible to describe:

  • the effect of a plague darkening the skin,
  • the dimness of the eyes in old age,
  • a fire gone out of a flax (reed), still smoking and not extinguished.
  • a heavy spirit.

THE EFFECT OF A SPIRIT OF HEAVINESS

  • It darkens our countenance: Our hearts are down cast. This spirit brings a "heaviness" over us..
  • It dims our vision, robs our hope. The room may actually look darker.
  • It brings a heavy, oppressive feeling. It quenches our faith.
  • It may come over many at once , like a plague. It can be like a cloud, hanging over a place.
  • It causes us to isolate, it steals our love, makes us feel alone.

OVERTHROWING THE SPIRIT OF HEAVINESS

  1. Recognize it. This is not you, you are a child of God. This is not God's will for you. Romans 8:31 What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
  2. Don't believe anything negative you think under it's influence. Accept no criticism of yourself or others. 2 Corinthians 10:5 We destroy arguments and every proud obstacle to the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,
  3. Put on the Garment of Praise (Is 61:3) This literally means to be "Wrapped Up In Praise" God has given it to you to put on. Take action including adoration, thanksgiving, singing and glorifying. Get loud, get definite, aggressive! Wrestle it down. (Eph.6)

FOLLOW THESE STEPS AND you will get a victory over this tactic of the Adversary.

Friday, October 10, 2008

Distract, Diminish and Forget

As we return from our retreat it is evident that the assault is on. Immediately the busyness of life begins its barrage in an attempt to distract us from the peace, refreshment, relationship and commitments which were experienced. At times the assaults are an all out "tater pile" experience where we begin to loose sight and direction. The assault of distractions pull us away of the things which just a days ago were so important and real. Everything assaulting us seems so important and makes us feel needed...but is so different that what God was showing us while away.

If this distraction is successful it will begin to diminish our resolve. The reality of our relationship with God becomes diminished as we get caught in the current of life and drift away. Words and motives begin to get twisted and old agreements quickly slip back in. The distance between prayer, study, silence, adventure and time with others seeking Gods heart, becomes more distant.

Once enough of those agreements take hold back in our life we begin to forget. We forget just how real our encounter was with God. We forget the sound of His voice speaking to our heart. We forget how pure our heart and motives were. We forget what we said we would do. We forget the passion and excitement which God stirred in us while we were quiet and unplugged from the world around us. We forget the life of freedom which God has called us to...and soon we are in bondage once again to the Spirit of this Age. Busyness rules our life and there is no time for God, family, adventure or the things that make us come alive.

Fight the distractions...

Stay close God and those who have shared our experience as to not drift away...

Walk in the freedom of life so as to not forget God and the passion of life which He has given us...

Thursday, October 9, 2008

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Wow...what an incredible time at Frontier Ranch in Buena Vista, Colorado.

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The teaching, fellowship and simply the whole environment was incredible. As I make time over the next few days to unpack just some of the things God has shown me, I will blog about them.

If I were to condense everything into a small summary, I would have to say that God is real. I mean I have always known that but He is really a real and personal God who wants to be a part of our entire life. He has called us to a life of freedom.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Pray for me...

As this is posting, I am in Buena Vista, Colorado at Frontier Ranch. I am entering into a Wild at Heart boot camp with other men. I am attending with two men that I know well, Jonathan and Jake.

Please pray for us that we would be changed forever because of God. Our longing is that we would meet Him in this quiet time in the wilderness in a way like we have never experienced before. This is a time to disconnect from most everything and just seek after God's heart...and the heart that He placed within us but we have just kept buried.

May we return refreshed with a new heart, vision and passion for what God has called us to.

Thank you...

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Why did Adam Freeze...Why do I Freeze

In the garden Adam choked. The Tempter had come to Adam's completer...his helpmeet...his wife - and started feeding her a line of half truths. Deceiving her with twisted truth...subtly attacking her. Adam stood there by her side and froze...he choked when it mattered most! His wife, his future family, his entire future as well as his relationship with God was under attack...and he stood there watching and waiting to see what would happen.

Guys, I don't know about you, but that is one of my biggest fears, that I would not rise to the occasion when I am needed. We dream about being the hero, the one with super powers, the warrior (as God created us men to be) who comes to save the beautiful woman and the cause he is fighting for. There is not a story or a movie worth the paper its written upon if there is not a hero, one who saves the day and does what is right. Yet, deep within, we struggle with this. When we are faced with an opportunity to really stand up for what is right, to stand up for one who needs us, to stand up for our church or for God...all too often we freeze while we over analyze the situation. Yet other times we are simply so caught up in ourselves and what WE are doing, that we don't even notice there are others in need around us. Yet still other times, we let our agenda be our excuse that we just don't have time for that now. God created us to be warriors and deep down we long to be that...but we fall short. Maybe we fell short as a young boy when we first tried to stand for what was right and we were shamed by others back into a corner. Maybe it was as a young man standing up for another and in turn being emotionally wounded by that person. The list of possible circumstances goes on and on...but the result is the same...we failed and were wounded because of it. But it doesn't just stop there. Once we have that wound, that failure to act, the Accuser just keeps pounding us with that and keeps us passive. He keeps us from stepping out and risking again for another, or maybe for ourselves. We begin to accept those lies, those accusations...we begin to make agreements with them that they are true. But they are not! Jesus came that we might have life and have it more abundantly!

Not too long ago I was in a situation where my wife was at risk of getting hurt because of the thoughtless "fun" of others. In a moment she was caught up in it and scared...but I froze...I did nothing! Another man nearby stepped in and stood up for her...but where was I? Wow...in a moment we had a garden scene all over and once again there stood Adam doing nothing and remaining silent. This whole scene struck me like and arrow in my heart and I tried to regain some credibility and position after the fact when tempers started to flair, but where was I when I was really needed. I could have prevented this whole thing or at least interceded at the beginning and protected my wife. I have yet to fully figure out my excuse...but that's irrelevant. Let me also say that the accuser has pounded me with this relentlessly and not let me forget what I did (or didn't do). Mentally and spiritually I was not on my game, but I am aware of that now. I am aware of the Adam within me, and I believe in all of us. I am sharing my wound because I also want to share my healing process...the healing you can have too. Its not over, but now that I recognize it and where it comes from I can be on guard for it. I am letting God, my Heavenly Father heal it. I need His affirmation that I am a man and that I have what it takes. I am letting Him heal me and awaken that warrior within me...the seed that He planted within me.

Father God, heal me and affirm me. I break the agreements that the Accuser has whispered in my heart. Make me the warrior that You designed me to be...

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Did Adam Sin First?

Ok...I got your attention, but hear me out. I have been contemplating a thought over the last few weeks and am going to try to flesh it out for you.

In the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve were blessed and given the responsibility to to look over everything. Was part of that was also to protect the two trees from which God said not to eat from? Adam was the one who had been given that charge to not eat from the two trees, directly from God, because at the time, God had not created Eve according to Genesis 2. There were a few choices associated with that responsibility; move far away from the trees and stay far away from the trees, build a wall of protection around the trees to keep from getting close to it and thus protecting all of humanity, or just continue on with life...and become used to it until it is just another part of their life which they don't even think about. (After the fall of man we see that God chose to protect the trees with his own warrior who was armed with a flaming sword to keep humanity from falling further and eating of the Tree of Life)

Beyond that we know what happened shortly thereafter...in the next chapter, the Tempter came and tempted Eve. He deceived her with half truths...but where was Adam? RIGHT NEXT TO HER! Now, as Satan so subtly swayed Eve's thinking by twisting the truth ever so slightly, what did Adam do...NOTHING! He stood there like a paralyzed idiot. I don't know what had him so enraptured that he couldn't think, speak or act...but here is where he failed. He stood there and did nothing. Like way to many of us today, he just stood there at Eve's side watching and waiting to see what would happen...but what was he created to do? He was created in the image of God...a Warrior who can not be in the presence of sin, yet Adam did nothing when sin came into his presence. Sin came to steal Adam's completer, his helpmate...God's crowning creation. Adam failed to do what God created him to do...and so Eve fell. She then turned to Adam and gave him to eat of the forbidden fruit as well...but had Adam already fallen? Had Adam already sinned by not obeying and living out what God had created him to do? Had Adam already sinned because he had not passed on to Eve exactly what God said about the Tree of Good and Evil? Eve's response to the serpent tells us that Adam had at least communicated the instructions to her, but he failed to protect her.

Just another random rambling thought...

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

When it Matters Most

Why is it that we have our worst fights, disputes, intense disagreements, or whatever else you want to call it, when it matters most?

I mean come on! It may be a vacation, an anniversary, birthday, Christmas, Thanksgiving or some other important time...but how many times are these special times when we have the greatest rift with those closest to us? I realized recently that the Thief has done way too good of a job of stealing the joy out of these occasions. Scripture is clear:

Jesus said... 
The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.
John 10:9-11 (BibleGateway.com)

Do you see that! The Thief comes to steal...steal our joy! That's the first step to killing our spirit and then destroying our life.

At risk of being too open, this has happened blatantly twice this year to my wife and I. The first was our anniversary get away. What was to be a quiet, romantic, relaxing retreat away turned in to a time of silence and distance. Why?....I couldn't tell you. I only remember that it was some words which were twisted and not received anywhere close to what their intended meaning was. (Most of the fault lies with me...stubborn pride!) The second time was recently when we as a family got away for a working vacation. A few days at the "happiest place on earth"...were not so happy. Once again when a relaxing time away which was destined for fun and bonding...was twisted into a time of silence and distance. Yes, same song different dance...words were twisted and not received as they were intended. (Once again...the fault lies with me..Ouch!)

What is the lesson here? THE THIEF COMES TO STEAL! He is out to steal our joy. By stealing our joy, he quickly turns a time which would refresh, restore and strengthen us...into a time that absolutely wears us out. No peace...just pain. No joy...just frustration, anger and stress. Once again our expectations are crushed...and we begin to second guess whether we should even have expectations. The negative begins to take center stage. The doubts begin to rush in. The accuser is relentless...until we pray. Put down the pride and ask for forgiveness. Its painful...and extremely hard. There is a certain comfort that comes from embracing our pride. But its time to step back and look at the big picture.

Wow...when it matters most the thief tries his hardest. When it matters most we cannot let our guard down. When it matters most we must be vigilant so that we can enter into that time of rest, relaxation and enjoyment with those who really matter most.

When it matters most...fight the thief...not those you love.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

A Glimpse of Heaven

A few weeks ago I had the privilege to go to Night of Joy with my family. It was an incredible two nights of some of the best Christian artists. The entire event took on a different atmosphere knowing it was a bunch of God's children coming together to just have fun and praise Him. Yes, the artists were great. Yes, the sound and production was great too. But none of these compared to the hour plus we sat just pouring our hearts out in praise while Chris Tomlin lead us to the throne.

It wasn't Chris, it wasn't the sound, it wasn't the lights. Yes, the songs were part of the glimpse, but it was Gods people unashamedly and un inhibited just worshiping. In the row in front of us was a young girl, in her early 20's I presume. This young lady had no care or awareness that anyone was around. In her heart and mind it was just her, Chris and God. Even now as I recollect the experience, I feel a lump in my throat. Her absolute un abandoned worship was moving. It left me in silence unable to utter a sound. I cannot wait to see her again one day in heaven and listen to her sing.

No, she did not sing like a bird. Truth be known, she couldn't even come close to finding the tune. She had a two or three note range, but her heart and love just poured out of her mouth. To many, they would look down on her and discredit her because she is mentally handicapped. This young lady was in NO way handicapped...she was freed to worship. She had a communion with God that radiated from her. Her childlike faith was innocent and real. Our family could not have been in a better place in that stadium area. We were all moved and changed because of that experience.

I believe that night I saw a glimpse of heaven and just how true and authentic that worship will be...no pretense...just authenticity. If this is what heaven is going to be like...I may be struck with silence and awe.

May we make a joyful noise to the Lord...

Monday, September 22, 2008

Fight for It

This just fits...

Today I am going to post from a series of devotionals that come from Ransomed Heart Ministries. This series of devotionals are all excerpts from books written by John Eldredge.

Fight For It
09/21/2008


Be kind, for everyone you know is facing a great battle.
A true community is something you will have to fight for. You’ll have to fight to get one, and you’ll have to fight to keep it afloat. But you fight for it like you bail out a life raft during a storm at sea. You want this thing to work. You need this thing to work. You can’t ditch it and jump back on the cruise ship. This is the church; this is all you have. Without it, you’ll go down. Or back to prison.
Suddenly all those “one another’s” in Scripture make sense. Love one another. Bear one another’s burdens. Forgive one another. Acts of kindness become deeply meaningful because we know we are at war. Knowing full well that we are all facing battles of our own, we give one another the benefit of the doubt. Leigh isn’t intentionally being distant from me – she’s probably under an assault. That’s why you must know each other’s stories, know how to “read” one another. A word of encouragement can heal a wound; a choice to forgive can destroy a stronghold. You never knew your simple acts were so weighty. Its what we’ve come to call “lifestyle warfare.”
We check in regularly with one another, not out of paranoia (“Do you still like me?”), but in order to watch over each other’s hearts. “How are you doing?” But be careful about what you are looking for from community. For if you bring your every need to it, it will collapse. Community is no substitute for God. I left our annual camping trip absolutely exhausted and disappointed. As we drove home, I realized it was because I was looking to them to validate me, appreciate me, fill this aching void in my heart. Only once in ten days did I take time to be away with God, alone. I was too busy trying to get my needs met through them. Which is why community cannot live without solitude.
(
Waking The Dead , 199, 200 )

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Peace Wrapped with Anxiety

Peace wrapped with anxiety is a complex concept but an all too realistic one. Just look around, at church, our family, our community, our country and our world. It's crazy! How many times have you found yourself mumbling, 'what next'? I know that I do it. Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring. Not the weather guru's, not the financial analysts, not the political analysts, not our best military experts...we just don't know. Things change at a moments notice and a new factor moves to the forefront. All of this creates a bit of chaos...which leads to anxiety.

Anxiety left unchecked...leads to fear. If you don't believe me just go to your local gas station and sit and listen to people. If you live in Metro Atlanta you will understand and you will quickly find that if there if there is gas when you arrive, it will be gone soon. Now just watch and listen to people, their anxiety melts into fear as the pumps slow due to reaching the bottom of the tanks. You quickly realize that each person is out for themselves as they move into protection mode and fear creeps in. I found myself in this same camp as I went from station to station looking for gas and wondering when my car would stop because I was running on fumes.

I am reminded over and over of 2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV) "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." Back in June I blogged about that. (If you want to read that you can click here)

Now here comes our part, as believers. We have an opportunity to live out Grace with those around us. We have an opportunity to let Peace rule our life. We have a peace that passes all understanding and that peace resides somewhere deep within us. As we live out our live with authenticity in this world of chaos we can also choose to let God's peace reside within us. As we walk with the faith that God is in control...no matter what, we may find that our peace is wrapped with anxiety. But at the core is peace, though we are living in a world of chaos. But is it really chaos? From our perspective it is, but God is still in control. Once we come to grips with this, we then can move to sharing Grace with those around us. Grace...transforming grace.

Monday, September 1, 2008

The Warrior

Excerpts taken from The Way of the Wild Heart by John Eldredge:

"Our God is a Warrior because there are certain things in life worth fighting for, that must be fought for. He makes man a Warrior in His own image, because He intends for man to join Him in that battle." (pg. 140)

The assumption is that whatever else a man might be, he ought to be a fighter. I noticed this assumption in the rosters of the tribes of Israel as they came out of Egypt. The families and clans are arranged and numbered as fighting men (Numbers 1). And remember - these are not trained soldiers, but runaway slaves. I doubt any of them had held a weapon in his life, yet it is assumed that if he's a man, he's a fighting man. Given who and what he is , Scripture assumes that a man acts, a man intervenes. Passivity has no place in the lexicon of true masculinity. None. And to overcome passivity, God has set His warrior heart in every man." (pg. 146)

How often have I, have we, simply suppressed that urge to fight for what is right, fight for another person who can't fight for themselves or is too weary to fight? I often listen to that subtle voice that says "it's not your issue...let them work it out on their own". This morning while reading, The Way of the Wild Heart, I began to understand that the urge to fight or stand up for what is right...it comes from God. He is the one who put that warrior heart in every man, but too often we suppress it or minimize it to the point it no longer makes a difference in our life...just as Satan intended it to be! God didn't create us to look the other way. He has created us and called us to fight for righteousness, for truth, for all that is good.

The next subtle voice says "you can't fight, you don't know how, your not equipped to do this". There may be a sliver of truth in that, but I was encouraged to see that God expected his men to fight...even if they had no experience. Scripture assumes that a man acts and a man intervenes. Yes, my heart and mind goes back to how much stronger we would be as men if we were part of a fellowship of men.

Don't stop reading now...

Am I advocating violence and bloodshed...no. Yes, there are times when we need to physically stand in the gap and intervene as with the abuse or physical assault on a child or another person. Our battles are not all physical. (Read Ephesians 6:10-12) Sometimes the most powerful and long lasting results are achieved through the medium of ink and paper. For example, Martin Luther did not sit by passively but rather posted his 98 Thesis on the door of the church. The warrior heart within him could take no more and he stood up and changed the world...for which we still enjoy the benefits of today.

As we see those around us, our friends, our families, our church leaders, our co-workers, our nation being attacked...we need to stand up in the gap and fight for them. What a symbol and example of love...the passionate love of our God.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

"Dust Mites" or "Dragons"?

Are you and I facing dust mites or dragons?

What in the heck am I talking about? Here it is, all through life we face stuff, those things than knock us off track. All too often the issues are not really what we think they are. At times we minimize things that are really bigger than we want to accept. Other times we make things much bigger than they really are. But what is the difference? Perspective...

"Dust Mites" - Ominous, ugly, nuisance creatures that look as if they can devour us. They are found when we focus way too hard on something that doesn't deserve it. But when we step back we realize we can't even see them.

"Dragons" - Creatures that we all too often minimize as not even being real. In reality, the dragon has come to steal (our joy), kill (our spirit) and destroy (our life).

This leaves us with one question left...how can we tell the difference? Ask. Ask God to show us the reality. Ask others who we trust to help get a proper perspective.

Thursday, August 21, 2008

How can I pray for you today...

Do we call those on our mind and ask how we can pray for them? I am realizing that it is clearly the prompting of the Holy Spirit telling me to call and ask.

Today I am asking you...how can I pray for you today? Post a comment with your prayer request and I will pray specifically for you and your request.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Slow Fade...

Are you tired of seeing families crumble around you? Are you tired of seeing lives crumble...I am! With every life that crumbles, there are compromises along the way. They may not be cheating on a spouse, as this song is talking about, but they are cheating on themselves. Slowly cheating with time, money, people, power, cheating on people, cheating on God, cheating on self. Helping to protect ourselves from from stupid decisions, stupid mistakes, this is why we need a group of accountability partners. Friends who have the right to ask the tough questions, a fellowship to help sharpen our life...and only if we could turn back the clock when we do find we have drifted too far.

Casting Crowns has written and sings one of the most powerful songs on this topic. You can find this song and others on their most recent release The Altar and the Door. Here are the lyrics...followed by the music video.

Be careful little eyes what you see
It's the second glance that ties your hands as darkness pulls the strings
Be careful little feet where you go
For it's the little feet behind you that are sure to follow


It's a slow fade when you give yourself away
It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray
Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid
When you give yourself away
People never crumble in a day
It's a slow fade, it's a slow fade


Be careful little ears what you hear
When flattery leads to compromise, the end is always near
Be careful little lips what you say
For empty words and promises lead broken hearts astray


It's a slow fade when you give yourself away
It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray
Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid
When you give yourself away
People never crumble in a day


The journey from your mind to your hands
Is shorter than you're thinking
Be careful if you think you stand
You just might be sinking


It's a slow fade when you give yourself away
It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray
Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid
When you give yourself away
People never crumble in a day
Daddies never crumble in a day
Families never crumble in a day


Oh be careful little eyes what see
Oh be careful little eyes what you see
For the Father up above is looking down in love
Oh be careful little eyes what you see

Saturday, August 9, 2008

The Difference a Fellowship would make...

What am I talking about..."a fellowship"? At the core of this is a group of men who intentionally share life together. They spur one another to grow and face life's challenges. They hold accountability to and for one another. They face the inner most battles of life together. They share the masculine journey which has been forgotten or beat down by our modern day, fast paced society.

Proverbs 27:17 (New International Version) "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."

All to often we find ourselves running through life "just making due" the best we can, as we face the battles of life. Some carry a box cutter, others a Swiss Army knife, some have their old Boy Scout knife still. Others have the privilege of carrying the knife given to them by their father or grandfather. Maybe is the Husky knife we saw in the checkout lane at Home Depot, and we thought to our self, "I might need that and I always wanted a cool knife", so that is what we carry. Very few have have a dirk, dagger, katana, hunting knife,ranger sword or a battle sword. My point is two fold, first, the knife is simply a symbol of what we use to face the battles of life. And no matter what we have, we just face the battles of life head on and use that knife over and over and over again to cut through the entangling snares we face. The knife may work great at first and for a time, but at some point we realize it's getting dull and doesn't protect us or work as well as it did in the past. This leads to the second issue, we never take time to sharpen that knife. The battles of life are hurled at us by the enemy so fast that we just keep pulling what we have and wearing the blade down making it more dull each time...soon its nearly useless. How often have we felt dull and useless, we just don't make a difference any more. (Another lie from the Accuser!) We need to on purpose schedule time to stop and sharpen our blade. During that time we may even learn how to use a larger and more effective blade from another man.

Okay, you understand the analogy, which one of us doesn't want to be worthy of a battle sword...but we find we are simply carrying a folding pocket knife?

What sane person goes to battle alone? Even the military elite enter missions in teams...AFTER an immense amount of training and conditioning! The gist is this, how much different (BETTER) would our families, churches, communities and businesses be if we had fellowships of men who were intentional and committed to sharing life together? Committed to sharpening one another as iron sharpens iron? Committed to helping young boys journey into manhood? How much stronger would we be to fight the spiritual battles in life? I know that I need it and desire it.

What a difference a fellowship would make...

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Ever feel like a lost sheep wandering...

Paul Alan - To Bring You Back
From the album Drive It Home

Are you thirsty
Standing in the rain?
Not sure where you are
Or how you lost your way?
Are you drowning
In some bar outside of town?
Searching for something given not found?
A crowd of people
But totally alone?
At the front door
But worlds away from home?


Light up the nights last regret and
Burn your only safety net
Step to the edge
It's such a long way down

Chorus:
I left the ninety-nine to find the one
And you're the one
I walked a thousand miles
In this desert sun
Only to bring you back
Only to bring you back


Are you tired
Of chasing the wind under water?
Do you aspire to breath again?
Are you dying?
Is that the best that you can do?
Cause you can't find your place
In a world that wasn't meant for you?

I left the ninety-nine to find the one
And you're the one
I walked a thousand miles
In this desert sun
Only to bring you back
Only to bring you back

Hello it's Me
I couldn't sleep
I was just counting sheep
And I'm missing you,
Hello it's Me
I couldn't sleep
I was just counting sheep.

I left the ninety-nine to find the one
And you're the one
I walked a thousand miles
In this desert sun
Only to bring you back
Only to bring you back

Friday, August 1, 2008

True Love

What is true love? This is one of the most written, talked about and sought after topics of all history. Google will quickly verify this point because if you were to Google Search the term "True Love" you would return nearly 59 MILLION results on the web. Everything from Discover Health and Christian Answers to thousands of blog posts on the same topic. There are songs, movies and books all chasing "the true love".

Let me stop here and make it clear that I am in no way an expert on this subject. But what follow is simply my observation in life. I read about it in the Bible but it never clicked until I read a book by Gary Smalley and John Trent.

Love is a decision...

Stop and think about it, read everything you can find, look at the life of Christ, look at every relationship you admire and think is an example of true love. You will find at the core...Love Is A Decision!

Monday, July 28, 2008

What Life Would Be Like

Here are more good lyrics. These are from Big Daddy Weave and it is the title track of their newest album What Life Would be Like.

I wish I was more of a man
Have you ever felt that way
And if I had to tell you the truth
I'm afraid I'd have to say
That after all I've done and failed to do
I feel like less than I was meant to be
And what if I could fix myself
Maybe then I could get free
I could try to be somebody else
Whose much better off than me
But I need to remember this
That it's when I'm at my weakest
I can clearly see


He made the lame walk
And the dumb talk
He opened blinded eyes to see
That the sun rises on His time
Yet He knows our deepest desperate need
And the world waits
While His heart aches
To realize the dream
I wonder what life would be like
If we let Jesus live through you and me


What if you could see yourself
Through another pair of eyes
What if you could hear the truth
Instead of old familiar lies
And what if you could feel inside
The power of the hand that made the universe
You realize

 
He made the lame walk
And the dumb talk
He opened blinded eyes to see
That the sun rises on His time
Yet He knows our deepest desperate need
And the world waits
While this heart aches
To realize the dream
I wonder what life would be like
If we let Jesus live through you and me

 
All our hearts they burn with hate in us
All our lives we've longed for more
So let us lay our lives before the one
Who gave His life for us

 
He made the lame walk
And the dumb talk
He opened blinded eyes to see
That the sun rises on His time
Yet He knows our deepest desperate need
And the world waits
While this heart aches
To realize the dream
I wonder what life would be like
If we let Jesus live through you and me

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Asking the Tough Questions...

Just what are the tough questions? My initial response is, those questions which you don't want to answer but need to be asked.

We as Christians or we as "friends" don't ask the tough questions much any more. Its the tough questions which hold us accountable, but in today's society of relative truth and flexible morals or ethics...do we have the right to ask those questions? ABSOLUTELY! Its those people, who will ask the tough questions, that really care about you and me. Sure, some who would ask pointed questions are doing it for their own selfish motives, but they are not asking the really tough questions. The ones that truly matter in life.

Too often today we find ourselves going to someone and paying them to ask us the tough questions, because nobody else is. We have a responsibility to ask tough questions of those close to us, those that we call our close friends and family. Sure, Jesus asked the tough questions of His friends...and others. "Who do you say that I am?" Gulp...I know the textbook answer, I know what you want me to say...but you know reality! Asking tough questions requires an abandoned trust and confidence in another person. Do they have my best interest in mind. Do I have their best interest in mind. For us to answer these questions...honestly...it requires that we trust them.

  • How are you and your spouse really doing?
  • How is your thought life?
  • Who have you found yourself thinking about lately in a way that's not healthy?
  • How are you managing your/your family's finances?
  • When was the last time you had a quiet time with God?
  • Are you still staying clean from that temptation which can consume you...when was the last time you slipped?
  • What would your kids say their relationship is like with you?

Tough questions spur us on. They keep us on track and focused on the things that really matter in life...our true character.

Who have you given permission to ask you the tough questions?

Who has given you their permission to ask them the tough questions?

If you can't answer either of those questions, its time to go find someone. Someone who can encourage you and spur you onto better things.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Authenticity...keeping it real

What is authenticity. According to Dictionary.com it is the quality of being authentic or genuine.

If we as true Christians would only live our life with authenticity, everyday, how different would this world be? If we lived out lives that were genuine and showed the freedom and love we have in Christ. Wow...people would look at us, not for us, but for the God who made us and loves us. Sure, we live different lives with different people and in different places, but why? Okay, yes, we are told not to offend...but we don't compromise who we are and our faith to prevent offending another. And, yes again, there is a time when our life should offend others. Jesus was called a stumbling stone because he caused some, who were confident of the path they were taking, to stumble and re-evaluate that path. We should never look down at another person for who they are or the life they have become entrapped in, for we, if we are honest, have been there too in one form or another.

My point, and the challenge to myself, is to live a life that is authentic. One that reflects an authentic relationship with Jesus...every day. A life that causes others to stop and question what is different. A life that is consistent each day. Not a hypocritical life...because we all make mistakes. We all have struggles. We all have relationships which challenge us and push us to what we think is our limit. But through all of this garbage of life...we still live with a hope that is eternal. A personal relationship with THE God who knows us and loves us intimately...that is real...that is authenticity. That is the freedom we are given which allows us and calls us to pursue the passions planted deep within us.

Think about it...are you, am I, living loud the authenticity and passion we are called to live?

I guess it's time to start encouraging one another to turn up the volume!

Monday, July 21, 2008

When blogging with Windows Live Writer...

ALWAYS make sure you have the "auto-save" feature enabled. This feature is found in "Tools" - "Options" menu. A very simple click can save a bunch of FRUSTRATION when you go to open a draft you have been working on...and didn't click "Save" before closing!

Just a thought...you can do what you like.

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Reflections...

Does it bug you to look into a mirror that is dirty, a mirror that has finger prints, smudges, toothpaste splatter or a thousand other things that just make a mirror nasty? But when you clean it...WOW...how much better and brighter things look! It gives you a whole different outlook and you feel better about yourself because you can see yourself...and you look better than you did previously. (before you cleaned the mirror) Now if your really ambitious, clean the light fixtures and replace the burned out light bulbs. The world now looks entirely different. The good and the bad is exposed for what it really is. No distortion due to dingy lighting or smudges and streaks on the mirror.

Today while mowing the lawn I began thinking about the reflection of my life. I was listening to Steven Gibbs via podcast talk about Reflecting Weakness and Reflecting Generosity. The truth of the matter is I do a pretty messy job of reflecting God to others. There are splatters of anger and frustration. Smudges of mis-communication. Many times I just neglect changing the burned out lights and continue with my life in less than adequate light. I have to say that my reflection too often is me...my humanness. I would like to think it's God but self gets in the way. Its time I step aside and reflect who God made me to be...and who He WANTS me to be.

What I would like to reflect:

  • Authenticity - not a front of who I would like you to see but who I am day in and day out.
  • Love - a love unexplainable except from God. A selfless enduring love for God, my family and others.
  • Strength - the strength from knowing God as my Father and being His beloved son whom He has empowered with a life to live for Him.
  • Generosity - one who gives and serves others without expectations and exceeds his family's expectations. No, not empowering or spoiling but blessing others.
  • God - through the changed life He has given me and the changes He continues to make in my life. Yeah, I know that this should be first but everything else is not possible without Him. God is the fulfillment and total summary of life.

In the book of Ecclesiastes 12:13-14

Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgement, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.

What am I reflecting? I know what's clouding and distorting my reflection of Christ. What's on your mirror?

Father, cleanse me and purify me...forgive me for trying to live this life the way I want to rather than how  You want me to. Clean my reflection so that only You can be seen. May Your Spirit have free reign in my life and flow to those around me. May what I reflect change the lives of others...for You!

Monday, July 7, 2008

Making a Difference...

Are you making a difference? Am I making a difference?

How many times have you caught yourself asking that question? In life...we just want to make a difference, but how? When you think about it, everything we do makes a difference. Sometimes its for the positive...others its for the negative. We ask ourselves at work if we are even making a difference. We see the dilemma of others lives and we wish we could make a difference. We see hardship around us and we say how we would like to make a difference if only we could. Many times we make our actions conditional. See if any of this sounds familiar; If only I had more time, I would love to be a small group leader for some students." "I start making more money I would like to help out that person/family/mission or charity." "If I had more I would give more." "I will be nice to them when they are nice to me." The list just goes on endlessly...

This really just comes down to a choice...are we going to make a positive difference in the lives of other people. Its a choice that evokes action. Every one of us has the ability to make a positive difference with what we have. It may be just a little time, a few dollars, a couple of encouraging words, an appropriate touch or a listening ear. We have what it takes and it is within our control.

Mark 12:41-44

The Widow's Offering
41Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. 42But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins,[j]worth only a fraction of a penny.[k]

43Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, "I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. 44They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on."

 

What is your mite?

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

An Experience with God...

I heard this song last week and the lyrics grabbed hold of my heart. I am sure I have heard the song a number of times before...but never really "heard" the words. These are pretty strong…and bring back thoughts of experiences which many of us have gone through with God. For others its an experience which we long for, a true "one on one" experience with God. One that we cannot walk away from without being changed.

My prayer is that He will once again prepare us for a God Experience with Him.

Lyrics from Sanctus Real…Whatever You’re Doing

From the We Need Each Other release

It's time for healing time to move on
It's time to fix what's been broken too long
Time to make right what has been wrong
It's time to find my way to where I belong
There's a wave that's crashing over me
And all I can do is surrender
(Chorus)
Whatever You're doing inside of me
It feels like chaos but somehow there's peace
It's hard to surrender to what I can't see
but I'm giving in to something Heavenly
Time for a milestone
Time to begin again
Reevaluate who I really am
Am I doing everything to follow Your will
Or just climbing aimlessly over these hills
So show me what it is You want from me
I give everything I surrender...
To...
(Chorus)
Time to face up
Clean this old house
Time to breathe in and let everything out
That I've wanted to say for so many years
Time to release all my held back tears
Whatever You're doing inside of me
It feels like chaos but I believe
You're up to something bigger than me
Larger than life something Heavenly
Whatever You're doing inside of me
It feels like chaos but now I can see
This is something bigger than me
Larger than life something Heavenly
Something Heavenly
It's time to face up
Clean this old house
Time to breathe in and let everything out

Sunday, June 29, 2008

A Friend...

On June 18th I posed a question...just what is a friend?

In talking with my wife and others it seems that each persons definition hinges upon expectations. Sure, there are textbook answers...but they don't address real life. Each of us has expectations of a friend: trustworthy, honest, encouraging, always there, one you can turn to no matter what...the list goes on. At the core of this is us... what is it that WE expect others to do or meet up to. But what happens when people don't meet our expectations? Are they no longer our friend? Were they never really our friend? Maybe its NOT all about us!

Friendship is a choice! You choose to be a friend...it doesn't just happen. Many have heard that the Bible says, A man that has friends must first show himself friendly. It's a choice. We won't always like what our friends choices are. We won't always like what our friend has to say...but it's a choice to be their friend.

True friends know us for who we really are. True friends are committed to walk the journey of life with us no matter what. True friends have the right and responsibility to call us into check when we need it. True friends are those you can call on at any time. Sounds like family...but it's more. True friendship is a choice. Family is family...they don't have to make a choice, or they don't get to make a choice. "...there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother". (Proverbs 18:24)

Three questions:

  • Am I a true friend?
  • Do I have a true friend?
  • Do I know THE true friend who sticks closer than a brother?

Everything you could ever imagine a friend to be is wrapped up in THE One who will never leave you or forsake you.

  • John 15:13
    Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
    John 15:12-14 (in Context) John 15 (Whole Chapter)
  • 1 John 3:16
    This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.
    1 John 3:15-17 (in Context) 1 John 3 (Whole Chapter)
  • Sunday, June 22, 2008

    A Spirit of Fear...or A Spirit of Power

    2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV)

    For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

    That is an EXTREMELY powerful truth, but have you ever really thought about it? A spirit of fear...one of Satan's strongest webs. We fear all kinds of things and we become week and/or paralyzed. We fear others. We fear that people might find out who we really are on the inside. We fear the unknown. We fear the future. We fear the doctor. We fear the test results. We fear our mailbox and the bills within. We fear making a decision. We fear stepping out of our comfort zone. When we are ruled by fear...our comfort zone begins to close in on us and get smaller and smaller.

    When we are bound by a spirit of fear...we cannot have a spirit of power, a spirit of love or a sound mind. Satan knows that! Fear feels like the same type of anesthesia that we get when we go to the dentist...it numbs us and makes it hard to move. We feel swollen and can't feel anything, we just sit and drool. Things just don't work right. God knows this too! This is why He reminds us that HE didn't give us a spirit of fear. It is the attack of darkness that gives us a spirit of fear. When we feel overwhelmed with a spirit of fear it takes a focused effort to pray, to praise or to just reach out to another and be honest about our fear.

    Fear CANNOT co-exist with spiritual power. Fear CANNOT co-exist with true love. Fear CANNOT co-exist with a sound mind.

    When you or I begin to feel the grip of fear...claim God's Word. For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. You and I can claim this because of the power of the Blood of Jesus! HE broke that bondage.

    Read Psalm 139.

    The warfare is hard and at times very scary. Don't be consumed by fear. If you cannot break that bondage in prayer and with praise...turn to one or two close to you. Pray together and claim victory. Praise together and unleash the power...there is power in praise!

    Thursday, June 19, 2008

    Father...or dad?

    If you are anything like me you sometimes just wish you could talk to your dad.

    My dad left when I was 8 and was never really a part of my life till I was in college. By that point I had a relationship with Christ which taught me about forgiveness and allowed allowed me to do it. Over the years we worked to re-connect and establish a relationship. No longer was he just my "father" but he became my "dad". Things were going great and our relationship was growing. He was becoming a part of our family. My wife and girls loved him dearly. Then, he died a few years ago. There was so much I still had to learn from him. Stuff I wanted to do with him. Just thinking about it and typing, the pain of losing him begins to resurface. I long to just sit and talk with him sometimes. Maybe to go for a trip together since we never did that. To spend a few more hours in the shop together, so that I can really pay attention and learn the skills of woodturning. My father-in-law has also died...so he isn't there either.

    Through all of this I have learned that God truly is my heavenly Father. He IS my DAD. It's not a formal "father/son" relationship. No, He is the real deal and he loves me for who I am. I am an image of Him. When those feelings of missing my dad creep up...I wonder, is that how God feels about me. Does He miss me that much when I wander off and do my own thing? I am drawn to turn back and just unload how I am feeling...and He always loves me back. He is waiting for me, preparing my path back to Him. He continues to bless me just as I do to my girls. There may be times when I get frustrated with my girls, but I NEVER stop loving them and longing to be with them. If I know how to do this...how much more does my Heavenly Father...my dad.

    Wednesday, June 18, 2008

    What is a Friend?

    I would like to pose a question...just what is a friend?

    I have had this discussion with my wife a number of times. It is clear that the definition hinges around expectations. I mean sure, there are textbook answers, and we will look at a couple. But what is it REALLY?

    Here is what you would find at Wikipedia:

    Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings. This article focuses on the notion specific to interpersonal relationships. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:

    Here is what you would find at Dictionary.com:

    Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1) - Cite This Source - Share This

    friend Audio Help /frɛnd/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[frend] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation

    –noun

    1.a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.

    2.a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony.

    3.a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile: Who goes there? Friend or foe?

    4.a member of the same nation, party, etc.

    5.(initial capital letter) a member of the Religious Society of Friends; a Quaker. –verb (used with object)

    6.Rare. to befriend. —Idiom

    7.make friends with, to enter into friendly relations with; become a friend to.

    Now that we have gotten past the formal stuff...what do you find in real life? What is a friend? Post your response below by making a comment. I will take those responses and share my thoughts next week.